hey kat n mebo....shani?
something that i am not very proud about myself is the lack of knowledge in some of our traditional stuff.
regarding a woman being taught now to handle her business in bed isn't a bad thing at all. however, what i don't appreciate is the fact that women are taught all these moves and stuff, while a man isn't really taught anything. if anything,if anybody needs lessons in that dept. it' s us me because the woman's anatomy is way more complex than ours, that coupled with a woman's emotion, it can be a daunting task. for a man it takes very little to satisfy him sexually. that i have a problem with because we learn our art on the streets from our peers, who're pretty clueless themselves lol. if these lessons are taught to both men and women that would be great.
the genetal thing, i think it's a personal thing, some men like the lips small, they like the innocent/baby look while others like the big/long ones because they signify that you're with a woman. i like the later. i don't know if they make a difference though when a man is in, i don't recall the last time i got involved with someone with big lips i was very young and didn't know anything about these things. i miss that, haven't been with a zambian woman in ages. ladies, does it make a difference, it terms of enhancing the excitment?i would think so because the larger they are the larger the area is and thus more nerve endings and stimulations. i don't know if it's only zambian women who do the malepi or whatever it's called. i recall one time i went to a nude beach with my love and we saw this women they were really long and big, but she was brazilian...
when it comes to intimacy, here's what i know to be the truth, a lot of white men like african/black women because of the way they move in bed. and white women like african/black men due to their larger than average packages. i like our african/black women because of their rich skin color, their white teeth, the way they stand by their men during hard times, oh yeah, and their round booty as well, i like that lol
the moves make a difference to the man during intimate times. the more the woman moves her pelvic/waist the more stimulation the man gets so yes it does make a difference, but i don't think this can only be learnt from traditonal, even dancing like slow jamaican whining or angolan kizomba can teach a woman to dance, the same dance is translated into the bedroom. so yes moves do matter, i'm sure they matter for you ladies too right?